Three of Swords, crossed by Three of Pentacles, flanked by Six of Pentacles and Eight of Swords
There will be conflict today amongst good friends, or more likely a building issue of conflict will come to a head. This has something to do with one or the other seeking perfection and control to the point of manipulation. They probably don't even realize that the control is an issue. They are so focused on getting things the way they want them, they have been paying little attention to how others have been affected. One of the parties has spent so much time lately taking care of everyone else that they have ignored their own needs and are simply stretching themselves too far. A giving nature is a great quality to have, but we must make sure we take care of ourselves along the way, or that we are not being taken advantage of. There is a feeling of entrapment at the moment, like there is no other option but to continue this way for now. There may be a goal you are both working toward or for some other reason, changing the dynamics is currently out of the question. Just make sure you don't ignore your own needs, and look to see if there is anyone around whom you may be unintentionally manipulating or binding to your own ends. Their displeasure will be obvious. Try to balance the load a bit to bring the relationship back to good grounds or at least a place where you can take a break from each other.
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